Comments on: Blame Hubs http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/2008/05/15/blame-hubs/ We are not Martha Stewarts; we are not Queens of Clean, we are real women in an unrealistic world.....trying to keep it Real! Wed, 15 Oct 2008 23:08:51 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=MU hourly 1 By: Christie http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/2008/05/15/blame-hubs/#comment-8577 Christie Fri, 16 May 2008 13:03:26 +0000 http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/?p=1202#comment-8577 It's hard not to be a doormat sometimes :) It’s hard not to be a doormat sometimes :)

]]> By: Faye http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/2008/05/15/blame-hubs/#comment-8576 Faye Thu, 15 May 2008 23:21:04 +0000 http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/?p=1202#comment-8576 Five whole hours spent each week on yourself?? Well, maybe they could, say, do their chores or talk to a friend on the phone, or, or...they need to get a life. Ok...that was weird...since when do we have to tell them to go do something while we're entertaining ourselves...haha You are even entitled to a pity-party :) Five whole hours spent each week on yourself?? Well, maybe they could, say, do their chores or talk to a friend on the phone, or, or…they need to get a life. Ok…that was weird…since when do we have to tell them to go do something while we’re entertaining ourselves…haha
You are even entitled to a pity-party :)

]]> By: Sheri http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/2008/05/15/blame-hubs/#comment-8575 Sheri Thu, 15 May 2008 19:10:04 +0000 http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/?p=1202#comment-8575 Updated to add..... It worked. The guilt.....he scanned the pics. If we don't play SPF tomorrow, behold, you will see babies! Oh, and this morning - I was more or less having a pitty party. All better now. I let comments get to me when I shouldn't. Heck half the time the older two aren't home. It's when they are home and I'm not that they seem to think that I should be there waiting. I told them to come to the gym and we'll have plenty of family time! Updated to add…..

It worked. The guilt…..he scanned the pics. If we don’t play SPF tomorrow, behold, you will see babies!

Oh, and this morning - I was more or less having a pitty party. All better now. I let comments get to me when I shouldn’t. Heck half the time the older two aren’t home. It’s when they are home and I’m not that they seem to think that I should be there waiting. I told them to come to the gym and we’ll have plenty of family time!

]]> By: meritt http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/2008/05/15/blame-hubs/#comment-8574 meritt Thu, 15 May 2008 18:13:24 +0000 http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/?p=1202#comment-8574 I've heard that once you get into working out regularly it's almost like an addiction. Not that I've ever worked out... bah ha ha ha. So I really don't have a clue what to tell ya on that except working full time and working out 5 days a week probably does take family time away - but on the flip side it's not like you have itty bitty tiny children in the home that 'need' you there every second. :) Sorry not to see the photos. You know how I adore babies!!!!! I’ve heard that once you get into working out regularly it’s almost like an addiction. Not that I’ve ever worked out… bah ha ha ha. So I really don’t have a clue what to tell ya on that except working full time and working out 5 days a week probably does take family time away - but on the flip side it’s not like you have itty bitty tiny children in the home that ‘need’ you there every second. :)

Sorry not to see the photos. You know how I adore babies!!!!!

]]> By: Moi http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/2008/05/15/blame-hubs/#comment-8573 Moi Thu, 15 May 2008 16:58:11 +0000 http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/?p=1202#comment-8573 OK ... my regular ID has returned. That's better. 8^) OK … my regular ID has returned. That’s better.

8^)

]]> By: eaucanada http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/2008/05/15/blame-hubs/#comment-8572 eaucanada Thu, 15 May 2008 16:35:40 +0000 http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/?p=1202#comment-8572 Personally, I am more than a little devastated that hubs did not scan those pics. Also, boo to others on the passive aggressive crap. I can't like that at all. Don't make me come over there and get all regular aggressive on them. Personally, I am more than a little devastated that hubs did not scan those pics.

Also, boo to others on the passive aggressive crap. I can’t like that at all. Don’t make me come over there and get all regular aggressive on them.

]]> By: Kelly http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/2008/05/15/blame-hubs/#comment-8571 Kelly Thu, 15 May 2008 16:11:09 +0000 http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/?p=1202#comment-8571 Hang in there! It is OK to say no, its just hard to learn to say it! I am proud of you - I can't even get myself motiviated to "join" a gym! Hang in there! It is OK to say no, its just hard to learn to say it!

I am proud of you - I can’t even get myself motiviated to “join” a gym!

]]> By: Kat http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/2008/05/15/blame-hubs/#comment-8570 Kat Thu, 15 May 2008 15:50:26 +0000 http://celebratingwomen.wordpress.com/?p=1202#comment-8570 So you're spending a whole say, 5 hours away from home doing something that not only improves your health and reduces stress and makes you feel better about yourself and you're getting grief? Um, it's time to pass out the big-kid pills. Just how many hours does everyone else spend doing what they want when they want to regardless of how it affects you? Uh-huh... Everyone in your home is old enough to not only cook for themselves, but to do other household chores, so it's not like you've abandoned anyone to a cruel fate. Put your foot down, you've given and given and given of yourself for years and dammit, you deserve 5 hours of time to yourself! So you’re spending a whole say, 5 hours away from home doing something that not only improves your health and reduces stress and makes you feel better about yourself and you’re getting grief? Um, it’s time to pass out the big-kid pills.

Just how many hours does everyone else spend doing what they want when they want to regardless of how it affects you? Uh-huh…

Everyone in your home is old enough to not only cook for themselves, but to do other household chores, so it’s not like you’ve abandoned anyone to a cruel fate. Put your foot down, you’ve given and given and given of yourself for years and dammit, you deserve 5 hours of time to yourself!

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